| wedding hall, you must have nodded reverently said: "Yes, I do." But marriage is a way of life of a very long, maybe we'll meet in front of numerous peach. When another love appeared in front of you will hand holding, or turned to hold the original? Emotional thing children sometimes hard to say, had vowed to love one person in this life, but in the foot on the red carpet after marriage, life happens to be another person, or a very tough love, or have interests of reciprocity ! Whether this person is male or female, is always small, for the marriage, it is outside the alarm. These are spurned P.3 four who are kind of attitude in marriage, feelings and how is to be selected? Let us not wear tinted glasses to see it. TYPE1 Twins life, I lost the bet Narrator: Cindy Gender: Female husband in Shanghai, I Beijing, we are truly a "Twins life"! First brought him home, my mom will resolutely oppose, she felt two people not in a city, how to understand each other, how to love it? Sooner or later go wrong. In the mother putting obstruct friends bombardment in, my husband and firmly embarked on a red carpet, two living began. together always very short, so cherish each other. I also thought that life is what I want. Until one day, in my fever, he can only use the phone to comfort me, but can not take care of me, I suddenly felt lonely and helpless. this time, my boss Lin appeared in my life! He was very quiet and gentle,Extramarital love you aground yet , bad in my body to help me "green light", so that I can work at home; in my stomach, I quickly bought right from the office downstairs and hekou porridge; equipment at home when things go wrong, help me fix! We did not have any relationship, but I know that the spirit of derailment, and physical as terrible! Emotional center of gravity has shifted, sometimes one week my husband and I are not on the phone, MSN is also just a simple greeting. two months ago, my husband gave me a big "surprise": He has started the company moved to Beijing, and I can live with! Could never our daily life, there have been many differences in life, a little quarrel,lv官方定價, the Cold War continued. There is a comparison between people, and I often think of Lin told me all the good, but also understand the feelings of her husband Lin has slowly been replaced, for this marriage I have no expectations. Lin confession to me that evening, I finally put down the grudges and he embraced! Until now, I did not dare to face her husband, did not dare tell him that my life has been without his plans! I want to tell him that I ...... derailed! Two people's lives sometimes really can not stand the test of distance. "passion and love are different!" In this scenario, the "distance" appears to be one of the most direct cause derailment distinct reasons, but the real problem comes from the fact confuse passion and love of this nature very different feelings. Fromm in "The Art of Loving," a book that people do not understand the "fall in love" with "enduring love" difference between the two, the former is falling in love, which is being in love, the former because of its sudden and unstoppable, it is easy to feel mesmerized, exciting, but this feeling is essentially the most difficult to sustain, because the time will soon wear off that initial mystery, and bickering, apathy, hostility in the shortest possible time so that both tired and bored. So to maintain a true love, the need is more durable, hard work, dedication and selflessness,lv官方定價, the choice of what people have to stand the heat and cold of love, I believe that the other side is that you can spend with their people. | 
